Why Whitney Houston’s Music Is (The Other) Love of My Life

I’m such a huge Whitney Houston fan that although news of her death broke almost 24-hours ago, I’m just now pulling it together enough to attempt to write this post. Before you write me off as a fanatic, just listen.

Whitney’s music has been a staple in my life since childhood. Everyone says they grew up on Whitney, but, I really, really did. They say that a person uniquely identifies with the music they listen to frequently during pivotal points in their lives, particularly their young adult years. That explains it all. You see, my mother, who died when I was nine and whom I miss every day, worked almost an hour away from where we lived. When I wasn’t in school, my grandmother and I would drop her off in the mornings and pick her up each evening, so that we’d have access to a car during the day. That was four hours a day I spent on the road, two of which were with both of the most important women in my life, all of which were spent listening to Whitney’s first and second albums in full rotation. Continue reading

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Ladies, Are Flowers All You Need to Feel Sexy on Valentine’s Day?

Okay, I confess. I’m one of those people who only watch the Superbowl for the commercials. You die-hard sports fans don’t get to judge me, okay? Great. Now, did you catch the commercials last night? As usual, there were hits and misses, but I really hope you caught this one. It’s from Teleflora, the flower retail giant, who had a message for all men out there who fear royally screwing up Valentine’s Day: Great flowers are all it takes to make her happy, Happy Valentine’s Night. I smirked when I saw this one, but apparently many commercial critics (yes, they’re blogging about it already) weren’t so amused. Some accused the super sexy commercial of insinuating that men can pay for sex, well, with flowers.

Now granted, I honestly thought it was a Victoria’s Secret commercial until the company’s logo came up in the final seconds, but once I figured it out, as a wife, that wasn’t what I got at all. When I ended, I immediately thought, well, hey, sometimes it really is the little things that often send the biggest messages, right? If my husband could pick out a flower arrangement as sexy as the one they showed in this commercial (which will of course, cost a pretty penny to have delivered to me on Valentine’s Day), it would certainly put me in the mood. Continue reading

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4 Practically Free Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day Together

Our little guide to spending less and loving more this Valentine’s Day.

Make Each Other Cards
You could do what the corporate giants at Hallmark want you to, and go and buy each other six-dollar Valentine’s Day cards written from other people’s hearts. Or, you can unleash some creativity and open your heart and see what comes out. You don’t have to go the kindergarten route and make a glue, glitter, and construction paper mess – think outside the box. One year I made my husband a custom photo card, another I types a poem and framed it, and this year I’m planning to make a new card out of my favorite parts of the old ones he’s given me. Doesn’t matter how it looks as long as it comes from the heart.

Get Lost Together
For us, this one is an oldie but goodie. Hoping in the car armed with snacks and a navigational system for backup, when we first started dating one of our favorite things to do was just get lost together. A car ride with the right music and no destination can be just as romantic as any four course meal, promise. Get off early, get in your ride and just enjoy the open road and each other. Your destination doesn’t matter. Just be sure you know how to get back home by bedtime. Continue reading

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What Do Vow Renewals Mean to You? (The Seal and Heidi Conversation)

Seal and Heidi Klum during happier times.

Say it ain’t so! Celebrity couple Heidi Klum and Seal have announced their separating after seven seemingly (emphasis on seemingly) blissful years of marriage. Although celeb couples marry and divorce faster than we can run an errand, this split shocked many. Myself included. No, it’s not because I believe that a happy marriage on the outside means the same happiness exists behind closed doors. And, it certainly not because they were a post couple for all blended families in Hollywood. Those things aside, things can and often do still go wrong. We all know that.My jaw hit the table when I heard the news mainly because when I think of Heidi and Seal I think of a couple who embraces love and marriage and who seemingly (again, emphasis on “seemingly”) pride themselves on making it work and striving to go the distance with each other no matter what. Their very public and very genuine annual vow renewals were part of what got me their, honestly. Continue reading

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The Video That Almost Made Us Make a Baby

I know what you’re thinking. That’s quite a title, right? Yes, well, you all should know by now that I’m pretty dramatic. But seriously, it’s true. Man and I are an agreement that we’re not quite ready for parenthood just yet, but that’s never stopped us from dreaming out loud about how we imagine things will go when that time does come around. Being the dog lovers that we are, we’ve always fantasized about having the perfect baby, and allowing he or she to grow up with the perfect buddy; the big, friendly, loyal, fun, and furry kind. Continue reading

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Hot Topic: Can Vanessa Bryant Get a Break? How Much Is Your Pain Worth?

News broke today that Vanessa Bryant, former wife of LA Lakers star Kobe Bryant, has received quite a hefty divorce settlement, as many expected. TMZ is reporting that Vanessa will receive $75 million dollars and three multi-million dollar properties – the home she and Kobe lived in with their two daughters, the new home they’d been building for the last two years, and the home her mom lived in, which the couple owned. Wow!

Now, as I said before when news of her divorce filing and his infidelity first broke, this woman has clearly been patient and no one can argue that after 11 years and one seriously embarrassing public cheating scandal, she doesn’t deserve an out if she wants one. Plus, it’s rumored their marriage ended because she found out he had stepped out on her once again. Yet, there was an outpouring of outrage today on the web with comments flooding in about how Vanessa “doesn’t deserve that much” and is “taking Kobe for all he’s worth”. Um, he’s worth double that people, and don’t you think she’s entitled to half of “their net worth”? Granted it’s astronomically larger than the averages person’s worth, but the rules are the rules no? But really, all of that aside, one has to ask, how much is heartbreak worth? Continue reading

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